The Casual Blog

Maybe one of the most overused (and feared) concepts in the lifestyle is “taking one for the team.”  Scroll any couples dating site & you’ll find that almost as many people make negative references to this disparity as post that silly “disclaimer” for Sydney University & their dozens of studies performed on human sexuality over the […]

Communication failures lead to problems in all kinds of relationships.  In the lifestyle, however, communication is utterly critical given that the feelings of four (or more!) people come into play when determining the desires and needs of all parties. Not too long ago, a friend of mine sought me out for some advice on a […]

As a recent newlywed & member of the swinger community, I have come to  the realization that dating is a thing of my past. No longer would I be dressing  myself up to imbibe food with a complete stranger so I can learn about where they  grew up, why they hate the color purple and […]